Aristotle and the Jesuits both have a proverb, “Give me a child until he is 7 and I will show you the foundations of man.”
I grew up in an extremely abusive and tumultuous environment, I faced unimaginable challenges from the very beginning. Born to a heroin-addicted father who doubted my paternity due to my unique greenish-blue eyes, I endured a childhood marked by relentless physical and psychological abuse. My mother’s escape from this toxic situation led us into the clutches of another abuser, a man who made our lives a living hell for the next decade. This sadistic figure, with a penchant for alcohol-fueled violence, subjected me to unimaginable cruelty. From a young age, I experienced brutal beatings, degrading insults, and a constant barrage of psychological torment. His words became my internal narrative, shaping my self-perception and leading me down a destructive path. Despite escaping this abusive environment at 13 through foster care, the damage was done. I succumbed to a life of addiction, crime, and self-sabotage. Opportunities slipped through my fingers, including a chance at an acting career, as the echoes of my abusive past haunted every step.
My journey took a miraculous turn when, at the lowest point in my life, I found the strength to ask for help. In a jail cell, I prayed for release from addiction and a transformation into the person I envisioned deep within. The pivotal moment came when a judge’s words resonated, urging me to seek help for my addiction.Upon release, I committed to a genuine recovery process, rejecting prescription drugs in favor of a holistic approach. Exercise became my therapy, literature my guide, and meditation my solace. Connecting with others who shared similar traumas allowed me to shed shame and rebuild my self-worth. On the 47th day of my recovery, I experienced a profound breakthrough. I embraced the power of the present moment, relinquishing the hold of my painful past and coming to the understanding that every person and every experience served as a teacher. With this knowledge I embarked on a journey of self-discovery and growth.
Today, I am a testament to the transformative power of resilience and self-belief. I’ve reclaimed my life, shattered the chains of addiction, and emerged stronger and wiser. Committed to ongoing self-improvement, I pursued education, earning a Life Coach Certification and enrolling at Yale University for a “Science of Well Being Certification” as well as “Introduction to Psychology.” I’ve emerged from the shadows of my past to become a Life Coach and Mentor, sharing my authentic experiences to guide others toward their own transformations. Through my story, I aim to inspire those who have felt alone, offering a beacon of hope that they too can overcome past traumas and shape a brighter future. Remember, you are the author of your life, the master of your fate, and I am here to guide you toward becoming the best version of yourself.
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